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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I have only been married for a year, but we have been together for over 4 years now. When we moved in together we got off to a bad start, I was pregnant with our son and I found out he was sending e-mails to other girls and always chatting with them. After all this happen I grew apart from him and he says he hasn't done anything since, however I no longer trust him. We don't really talk any more, it kind of seems like we're leading two different lives unless we're spending time with our son. I feel like us as a couple no longer have a relationship. Everyone thinks we're this happy couple friends, family but it's all a show whenever people are around. He says he's sorry for everything he did and knows he made a mistake and won't do it again but I also heard that when he did it the first time and he still continued throughout my pregnancy. Should I consider this marriage/relationship to be over or should I try to make it work?
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (20 November 2008):
 Peoples definition of cheating varies. Some people consider chatting on line to be cheating, some do not. Apparently you of the former variety. Have you made this clear to him. He may consider it to be no big deal, he has done nothing wrong. But YOU consider it cheating and therefore have lost trust in him. It doesnt really matter if he considers it cheating, YOU do, therefore it needs to stop.
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