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writes:Im in such a mess I don't even know where to start. I've been going out with this guy for about a year and a half. its been pretty turbulant, weve had a few rows. but last week we had a huge row and he finished it with me. I called to him the next day and he was so angry with him and said he meant what he said. I text him on monday and asked him to have a think about us and if he really wanted the relationship to end and I haven't heard anything from him since. I'm totally devastated and dont know what to do. We have broke up several times before and always managed to sort it out. I really want him back. Should i leave him with his space and let him come back to me or should i chase after him and try get him back.. please can someone help
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (23 March 2007):
All you can do is tell him you still want to be together and you never meant any horrible things you said. Just ask him to reconsider getting back together, then just leave him with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): so you have sorted it out before after arguments,but this time it seems a bit diffrent,if he wanted to be with you he would have by now,dont chase him let him know your still intrested but your happy to go on without him,he will soon come running trust me
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reader, hyperbunny +, writes (23 March 2007):
Hello sweetheart, I've been inexactly the same position as yourself. Whether it pans out that you get back togther or you don't.. what ever you do.. DO NOT chase after him. You've made it clear now that you want the relationship to work, he knows this and so the ball is in his court. I know this is painful but in the long term you'll benefit from leaving him alone. He may come back to you.. (absence makes the heart grow stronger) but if he doesnt.. at least you wont feel liek a fool for chasing him. All the best xx
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reader, Lil Star +, writes (23 March 2007):
I would definitely leave it a while before you contacted him again. Maybe leave it a week or 2 to let him calm down. In this time, he may miss you and be glad when you do contact him.
I had a very similar relationship to yours, where it was stormy and we would row and break up often, but would eventually get back together, because we did really love each other.
Whenever we had major rows, he would need to get away. But if I made contact 2-3 weeks later, we ended up back with each other.
I hope this helps... xxx
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