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female
age
30-35,
*z_girl
writes:Should I break up with my boyfriend? Or how do I trust him?My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 9 months now, and, overall, our relationship is pretty good. We treat each other with respect; he says he loves me no matter what; and we have fun.However, I have serious doubts about the other girls he has associated with since we have been together.Girl #1: Went out with him for a summer. She now lives in another city, but has saved texts on his phone from her, a collection of letters and notes he has written about and to her and a folder of photos of her.Girl #2: Comes from another country. She is gorgeous and exactly the kind of girl he has described to me as wanting. The complete opposite of me, and she is gorgeous. She is coming back early next year, and he wants her to stay with him.Girl #3: Is a family friend of his, but I know he slept with her on a trip they went together on overseas. Love letters were exchanged, and she now wants to send him another one (she asked for his address).Girl #4: A friend of a friend. A mutual friend of ours saw them at a bar together looking ‘cosy’. She is very hot, and I know is the kind of girl he would want. I asked him, and he denied it.What should I do???? I have half a mind just to break up with him, because even if these things are untrue, my mind is killing me thinking about it all the time!I'm 19 and he's 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): Run, and don't get too emotionally attached. I wasted my time in one of these relationships for almost 4 years. He's still having fun. It doesn't mean he doesn't care for you, it's just he has too much going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): Without knowing the guy it's hard to really say. If it was just one thing I'd say work on your trust issues, but it sounds like quite a few things honestly. If I were you I'd sit down and have a serious conversation with him, if you do not feel comfortable enough to do that, then maybe it's best to end the relationship before you get more attached. Really the best advice I have to give at the moment.
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