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female
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*heerwhore23
writes: My friend with benefits told me that he likes me 4 days ago.. I've liked him since 6th grade (I'm going into 11th and him 12th) anyways we talked all day for 2 days in a row.. it was amazing. He invited me to go to the beach with him and some friends.. then the next day we both went to this party then everything went downhill. We didn't talk at all. My "best friend" is the only one who knows about us. She got mad at me and decides to flirt with him to get me back so I went to go find my best guy friend. He decides to take me for a ride to talk.. my "best friend" thought it would be funny to tell the guy I like that me and my guy friend went to go make out. Then she called me to come back. When I did, the guy I like just looked at me and drove off... to try to make things right my "best friend" tells me that the guy I like was talking to another girl... we are going to the beach in 3 days.. So should I believe my" best friend" about this other girl and not go to the beach or should I try to talk things out with the guy I like?
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reader, SoConfuzingXx +, writes (11 July 2010):
I say, go to the beach again. Girls make up a lot of rumours all the time to get back at you if you have upset them in someway. And if you don't go, you may lose any chance with the guy you like because you were too worried by a girl who may or may not exist. At least TRY to talk to him about it, even if you don't do it when you are at the beach that day.
Good luck!
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