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writes:I have posted before( The guy i am seeing won't commit and disappears for months at a time) The last few times he has disappeared and not been in touch, i have contacted him and he has been really pleased to hear from me and each time he has told me that he has lost my number which is why he hasn't contacted me. Three times to be exact, and I just don't know whether to believe him anymore, he seems so genuine though. Should i give him another chance? How do I make it clear that he shouldn't mess me around? thanks
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 July 2006):
 You are wasting valuable time on something that is going nowhere. Get out there and have some fun, stay busy, you'll meet the guy for you but you have make yourself visible. Good luck!
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reader, shania  +, writes (1 July 2006):
 He is using you...he probably has girls all over the place..And i dont believe him when he says he has lost your number....thats a feeble excuse.Dump this loser and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2006): Try disappearing and not call him for months and see if he contacts you. Act like you don't care. Keep busy with friends or a hobby to keep your mind off him. If he doesn't then you know it's not worth it. Besides you never wait for someone your not married to or have no intentions going down that road. I'm going through something similar to that except, his job or family is what keeps him busy and we are commited. It is hard to move on if once you get it in your mind to move on and they find a way to change your mind. Let me know what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2006): He's a player, don't waste your time. If he was REALLY interested then your number would be etched on his memory and he'd be phoning YOU all the time. When he disappears he's probably seeing someone else, so rather than tell you the truth he uses the feeble excuse that he's lost your number!!!
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