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writes: Okay lastnight i had my boyfriend over to watch a movie. Before he got here my mom told me she would prefer if we didnt go in my room,but i talked her into it and i told her i would leave my bedroom door wide open,just because i wanted to cuddle with him,i wasnt planning on doing anything,just cuddling and watching a movie...Well,we were drinking abit i only had 2 or 3 vodka coolers,but i was feeling good and he had a couple beer,so ya of course we were both horney. Well we were in the living room till 10:10 watching a movie with my parents but then i decided i wanted to go upstairs with him because he was leaving at 10;30. Well we were watching TV and then just started making out and i was feeling him up BUT HE HAD HIS CLOTHES ON AND SO DID I and my mom walked in.Welllll,she told him to go downstairs and me to stay upstairs and him and her were talking.now shes very upset with me and doesnt trust me anymore and she called me a slut,but my boyfriend cleared that up with her and told her the definition-haha-...but not i dont know what to do, she's lost all trust in me and i want it back:( ...its not like we were having sex i wouldnt do that in my moms house with her home..i need help:( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2006): Your parents obviously love you very much. When you were younger, they would be very close to you, you yourself being the result of a promise they shared to love you.
But now you're older and are starting to have closer relationships with others your mum is finding it hard to let go and accept that you are becoming an adult.
You should try to respect her views and talk to her about them. Maybe you could bring up her relationship with your grandma when she first had a boyfriend. Better still, talk to your grandma and ask her how she coped with your mum gradually becoming more independent.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (1 July 2006):
 Well you got caught and all you can do is say sorry, and hope that in time she forgives you. I dont know how old you are, but I suppose it is only fair to respect your parents wishes and not get frisky at home. There are plenty of other places you can go to be alone with your man after all, and if it causes all this tension at home then it is just not worth it.
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