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writes:My daughter's father is now wanting to give his right as her father unless I give him back Joint Custody, in which it will not happen. His verbal abuse, negative comments, etc, is what I am not going to put up with anymore. He'll cry over the phone telling me how sorry he is for cheating on me, etc...I am not going to put up with it, NO MORE! He wants me to feel sorry for him but enough is enough. Crying and then telling me it's all an act....process repeats. He is doing this all in the surroundings of my daughter and his other children. Should I believe him this time? Do you think he'sup to something, again? Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 He could be up to something. It sounds like he's using emotional blackmail to get what he wants- joint custody. Keep putting your foot down and hopefully he'll see that his abuse isn't going to work with you anymore and he should try acting like a human rather than trying to play games. Doing it with the children around will may make them see you as being a meanie and him as being the victim so tell him to stop doing his crap round the kids.
Hope that helped!
Good Luck!
xxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I personally would not believe a word he says as you have said he keeps doing this.
Untill he grows up and realises that what he is doing is going to effect his children i think it is very wise that he does noy see them, just look after you and your children and if he is that desperate to see them he will amend his ways.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): To be quite honest, I think you shouldn't believe him.
He seems very manipulative and negative, and someone like that shouldn't be in your life.
If he's said this many times before, then it seems to me that it's just an act.
Hope I helped you!
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