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writes:So this guy and I were talking for about 4 months, then at a party we had one on one time. He brought me home and walked me into my room. I had drank a bit we than ended up having sex, he asked me to be his GF. I avoided the question, 2 months have passed by and he's still trying to make me his girl. Thing is he sometimes says comments that make me think me thinks I'm some kind of slut . Because I guess I kissed a friend of his but that was a long time ago. Way before i met him.I think I like him but I don't think I can be with someone who thinks of me that way. Why does he keep trying even though his mind is set on how I am? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): It doesnt sound like you have actually done anything to warrant him thinking your a slut and if hes still trying to be with you whilst thinking you are then he's probably just after more sex with you. So if I was you then I would forget him because if thats the case then he will just use you and who wants to be with someone like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): To be honest OP, you're very wishy washy here and playing games. I wouldn't have stayed chasing you this long at all, you're too flaky and something tells me his comments were innocuous but that you're taking them as if he called you a slut. Has he called you a slut? What has he said to you that makes you think he called you a slut?
Besides how can you expect a guy not to get so frustrated when you play this long game of sleeping with him and then using every excuse you can think of not to agree to be his girlfriend.
I say move on, let him find someone who knows she wants him and doesn't take what he says so negatively.
I mean I once had a friend fully convinced I thought she was a slut because I pointed out the fact that I thought her kissing three different guys in one night was funny to me and she played them because she had no intention of getting with any of them but took their numbers anyway. You see in her mind she was worried about being a slut, so no matter what I said she was going to assume I thought the same as her.
Sounds to me like this guy is just trying to get through to you but not being successful, so just let him go, reject him completely and let him find a girl who is more sure of being with him.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (15 January 2013):
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Don't bother with him, he disrespects you.
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