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writes: I don't know if you rememeber my previous questions...But this is mostly me asking if what I'm doing is ok,Recently my ex started dating another guy who is, to be honest not that great, he isn't that quick in the head and studders alot, maybe it's because he plays hockey and is a bit in shape, which i'm not, but I've already seen this guy in high school, anyway not to get carried away... I've started speaking to my ex about a week ago and it seems that sometimes this guy doesnt call her, and she gets lonely, it only happened once that she called me back after I called and it was because the guy didnt call her back.I don't mind if it seems she is using me, because I know deep down inside she still cares for me, even if its as a friend. So I try and keep in touch with her so if she ever needs someone to talk to, I'll be there for her, because this guy is only interested in getting laid, I beleive...Is it ok what I'm doing, or am I being a user too ?
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reader, yourstruly  +, writes (1 May 2006):
 Hi Ya sweet! I feel that you really need to be careful because the only one your in danger of hurting is yourself.You should find someone who wants too be with you all the time and be with you because your you not just because they need a shoulder too cry on or they're feeling lonely.I appreciate where you are coming from truly i do. But it sounds too me the best thing for you to do is get on with your life and let this girl know you are there purely as a friend and nothing more.I hope this helps in some way.xx
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