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writes: I met this boy on holiday who i began to really like.he liked me too and when i found out,i thought that we could start a relationship.but because we live so far away,we didn't see eachother for months.he started to get less interested but i became more interested.hes now in a relationship and i don't know if i'll ever see him again.the thing is i think i've fallen in love with him and its starting to get me down.i know i should just give it up but i don't know how, and i don't think i want to.Please help!should i give it one more try and if so what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Hey, I hear you! I met someone on vacation too and we both like each other but I always have the fear that he will find someone else and lose interest in me. I know he's not the kind of guy to just stop talking to me, like, we'll remain friends and everything, but I'm totally head-over-heels for him. I guess what I can tell you is that, if he's seeing someone, try and be happy for him and see if you can't keep yourself happy. Remember that it probably isn't forever (the girl he's dating), but do respect his decisions. Be supportive, be a good friend, entertain him, and maybe he'll see what he's missing. If not, maybe it's a hint that this boy on holiday might not be the brightest fish in the sea after all.The guy that I like is someone I can't stand to have control over. My biggest fear is that if I tell him how I feel, he will either detach himself from me so that he won't hurt me, or he will prevent his own happiness. So, we may not have the same problems, you and I, but we have the same fears basically. Just keep on showing him who you are and what you're made of. If he's not interested... too bad for him I guess. Heal, and find someone who will wait for you. Good luck! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): OMG i totally agree. I mean, i met this stunnin boy on holidy nd il neva eva see him again. Its ben 3 mothz i stil cry wen i thkn bout him. I know ur goin t think wutevr bt i think im in luv w him im so sad:|
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reader, bonym  +, writes (6 May 2006):
 My friend I know exactly how you feel, it has happened to me more times than I care to remember, but let me say this, you have to move on otherwise you will slowly drive yourself crazy. I know because I have been there. My dear, there are many men who are out there, as cliche ish as it sounds, its true. xXx
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