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*reddyfred
writes:I dont know what im doing any more i was married for 8 years and we split up a few months ago dec 22 2009 i have my own place im self employed im ok for the time being i just feel alone i have 2 girls 2 and 5 thay live with me cuz every time she takes the kids a baby sitter is watching them i dont have time for my self i see her around town with guy friends she says but i think its more witch i dont care but a few weeks ago she came back and wanted to spend the ight and talk it was ok i guess and we did that a few times well last night she asked to spend the night around 5pm and i was like i had plans but thats coo ill see u when i get home at 830pm so at 10 she brought the kids over and said shes tired she wanna go home and sleep i was like you know i caciled my plans and im not suposed to get the kids untill the morning now im here with the kids and no plans but its ok so she left a few minites went by i got mad and drove to her house i called her i asked what she was doing she said jumping into bed about to sleep i said before u do that can you give me the youngest girls shoes she was like where u at i said down the street she said she was just about to leave to give her friend a ride home from work ill dropit off later i said ok then i said where is your car she said i left a sec ago in my head i was like i been out side your house this hole time so i went to a friend house and at 330 am i seen her driving home i guess my ? is should i be mad or used or what i was over her doing my own thing and she came back sturing things up and now im back deorised and feel used and abused im their for her when she needs me but not when i need her and i know the answer to my ? shut up and get over her i cant even be friends with her help me with an answer if any one can
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reader, freddyfred +, writes (14 March 2010):
freddyfred is verified as being by the original poster of the question just wanted to say thank u
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reader, freddyfred +, writes (14 March 2010):
freddyfred is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your answers
i see her now and i feel better cuz i know she made a mistake im not going to let it get me down its her loss
thank u again for the help
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 March 2010):
She is messing with your feelings. She doesn't want you to be with anyone else but she wants to be free to do whatever she likes at your expense. I suggest you tell her that you only want to communicate with her regarding the children and that's it. Tell her No more talk of fixing things or anything like that. Wow, it must be tough coping with the two little ones. Its usually the other way around where the woman and kids are abandoned, so just take each day at a time and focus on those two little girls and forget about her. In no time at all they will be beautiful grown women who will always remember that their father loved them and cared for them. As for your ex, she will never find what she is looking for. Various men are going to meet her and use her then leave her (the Don Williams' 'Lucille' scenario). By the time she figures out that the choices she made were bad, it will be too late because you would have moved on. Its painful right now but in time it does get easier to not think about her. All the best.
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reader, illwill1991 +, writes (13 March 2010):
I belive you should try and gian full custidy of the children if she is leaving them with a baby sitter and leaving them with you just to go on dates with other men
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