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writes:Athough my relationship with the man i dated the last year seems to improve in some way after a serious disagreement before 2 months, now i have feelings for him but i don't want to make it obvious to him. I am always furious when he turns down an arrangement. Sometimes he makes me angry but i don't ever want to tell him how furious i am because this makes things worse. He doesn't like any reaction of disappointment from me. But how can i control my feelings and my reactions and show him that i care for him but i am also relaxed and not anxious? Should i follow my own program or should i ask him to make arrangements together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): You need to say I love you a lot but I really do want to arrange to go out with you sometimes because that's what I enjoy the most.
I know it's not a lot, but I can't really put myself in that position. If he's the one that rejected most of the arrangements, you need to get him to sort it out.
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