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writes:Ok to start off this is going to be confusing! I'm a 19 year old college student who has recently lost weight about 55 lbs and I look and feel great! Ok now to the story. (This takes part of the story takes place about a year ago) I work part time in retail and this lady, Brenda, is a teacher (but works here weekends) mentioned to me that her son would start work here, (he's 18 and also a college student) and when he started Brenda and I were talking and somehow it got out that I thought he was cute and she was thrilled and she jokingly called me her daughter in law, and said she would love it if me and her son would date. I only worked with her son a couple of times but I really liked him - and that doesn't come often for me, I admit I am picky.. Well since i was over weight and he was so cute i knew he didn't like me like that and after 1 month of working there he left (because he got a better part time job at a restaurant)Ok flash forward to present day. I have lost weight and out of the blue someone brought up this guy who I had a crush on... and I got to thinking maybe I should ask him out? Or what I mean is maybe ask his mom... so hows he doing? is he single?... but i wouldn't know where to go from that is he single question, you know? And would he think it was weird that a girl from a year ago who he barley worked with liked him? Oh and to add more to the story if we did end up going out he would be my first date, so i wouldn't know what to do, and the first kiss? Sorry for such a long story, think you guys can help?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 You are thinking about things way to much here, the more you think of things the more nervous you are going to make yourself. Instead of going through his mother why not look for him on facebook and see if you can find him on there. Add him as a friend and drop him a little mail just explaining who you are and ask him how he is. Take things slow and get to know him properly, don't be thinking about dates or anything like that just yet, or else you will make yourself nervous. Just concentrate on trying to get to know him and take it small steps from there.
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