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female
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30-35,
*ivejust2bJess
writes: So my boyfriend I am now seeing are planning on getting married in the near future. He moved from alabama to north dakota and thats when I met him. But as I was creeping on his facebook wall and looking at his pictures I noticed that he is still friends with his ex girlfriend from alabama (the last girl he dated from there before he moved). That doesn't bother me cause I know they are friends. But what does bother me is that they both still have pictures of them two together on facebook. The pictures aren't taken anywhere special like at a vacation or anything, they are just pictures taken out in a backyard with them hugging and snuggling up to eachother. Also she posts on his wall as if she is trying to get up in my place and like she still cares for him more then a friend. And it bothers me, he probably won't get it cause he doesnt understand how feelings and the thinking process between a current girlfriend and an ex are. He would just brush it off like nothing. But I can't, what should I do? do I talk to him or her about it? what do I say? Words don't describe how I feel about this situtation. Please help!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 February 2012):
how long have you known this boyfriend that you plan to marry in the near future?
"creeping on his facebook wall" is that like spying on him?
I'm still friends with my ex husband on facebook... btw doesn't mean much. I'm also friends with my first husband's wife and my ex husband's fiancée...facebook is a joke honey.
You tell him how you feel.
how long are they apart?
you are so young why planning the marriage?
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