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writes:Hi i am 16 and i am a sophomore in high school. I play sports and i am 6'1 and around 145 pounds with a skinny/athletic build. I don't have a lot of relationship experience and expierience with asking girls out, but i have some. Ok so enough of me and now on to my dilemma. I met this girl a couple days ago at my friends house. Shes 15 and is a freshman at a different school. My friends and i were all throwing a football outside my his house and she came outside and just started throwing football with us. She is drop dead gorgeous and believe it or not has a pretty good throwing arm (which I found pretty attractive) she is kind of a tomboy (but doesn't look like it) and doesn't mind just hanging around with guys. She has a great personality and after a while i got to talking to her a little bit and as all of us were still throwing she kinda started getting a little flirty. when i threw her the ball once she dropped it and said "if you pick it up for me i would love you even more" In a joking/flirty tone. I knew she wasn't being 100% serious and I just said back to her in a joking tone "oh so you already love me?" and she just kinda laughed. I cant really tell if she really likes me or just likes me as a friend.I also have another problem, All of my friends i was with seem to have a "thing" for her and if she likes me i would like to ask her out before one of them does.... but i dont know if she really likes me that much. I also dont want to make all of them mad at me for asking her out before them because they are really good friends.Also how should i go about asking her out and usually when im around her all of my buddies are too which is sort of a problem. Thanks for your help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): You only live once. There isn't any sense in waiting.Just tell her you feel like you are beginning to have romantic feelings for her and would like to get to know her a little better. Then invite her out on a date.You can go to the movies, to a dinner, a lunch, to a football game. Anything really.Just ask her the hell out or someone else is going to.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): well....... she sounds like me, I am the type to hang with the guys and be a tomboy even though I dont look like it, well when I would go play with them they all started to have a thing for me and the one I really like I would flirt with like that and none of the others, so if she's only flirting with you like that she really likes and if you want to ask her out before the others, just say he I think you have a cool personality I would like to get to know you a little more, you wanna go out sometime?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): anyone???
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