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writes:My husband and his good friend (male) spent a weekend away from home for business/fun. Shortly after I got an anonymous phone message suggesting my husband had a female with him. His work is extremely busy right now which I figured is the reason for his stress and distantness. Now I am wondering if I should be concerned. Should I ask my husband's friend if there was a female there or is that putting his friend in an akward position? I really trust his friend to tell me the truth but hate to involve him especially if this is a false alarm. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): MEN HAVE AN UNSPOKEN RULE TO LIE ABOUT THEIR (and their friends)AFFAIRS. This friend will cover up and lie. Instead of putting the friend on the spot confront your hb. If you got a phone call telling you a woman was there as well, it is not a hoax. Ne thing to remember if your hb had his *hore there isn’t it also possible that his friend was also part taking in some forbidden delights as well. maybe these two friends both had their side dishes with them. Either way get the hb to start talking and do your own investigation. One thing for sure, the friend will quickly alert hubby that his wife is smelling another p*ssy around. (crude but a reality)My brothers and his friends all were visiting from another province. It was supposed to only be guys. I went to visit them and found his friends *hore was also with them. Needless to say i was the one that was uncomfortable with all this since we were previous neighbours and i knew his wife very well. Also my brother went to china recently and i suspect he took along his *hore during his business trip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): I think if you trust this friend to tell you the truth, then go ahead and ask him and tell him what happened to make you ask the question. It may put him in an awkward position but so what, if he, is not the type of guy to cover for your husband he will tell you the truth.
If he is the type to not get involved he will most likely tell you that as well. He is an adult, he can handle and adult question.
And many men and women both cheat on business trips, sadly.
So I find it odd that you would have gotten this call, someone is either disgusted with your husband's behavior or it is the other woman wanting to break you up, or less likely a crank call.
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