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writes:Well...I made an offensive joke to my friend who is trying to be religious now.Sometimes I'm a bit harsh and so I made a joke and I told her she cannot watch a movie with Witches and Wizards if she believes in God. (I said that because she told me to respect her religion and to not listen to R and B and pop music around her)She told me she can pick and choose if she wants. So I was offended.(I'm bisexual and ugh she told me I couldn't be a christian because of my sexuality)Then I said that's why I dislike religious people because they are such hypocrites and so she got mad and left my house.Sorry if this is long.....Should I apologize?Would you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): Hi Dear, It seems that you are both discovering your options and choices in life around the same time.Apologising is good if you feel she is going to be a good friend to you in times to come, other taking it as part of life and conversation with a grain of salt is fine.You were clearly (subconsciously) testing her to see where she might be going with her values. I agree with one of the other posting about perhaps looking at your own identity and values - it is possibly a very good time to do it, rather than concentrating on hers. :) And by doing this is constructive All the best!
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reader, Lovemeright11 +, writes (14 June 2011):
 God does not hate you if you are bisexual you can do whatever you want I am bisexual and I still believe in God and I was raised Catholic that's a more strict religion than Christian so I say :P to it all you have a right to say how you feel and if it offends her oh well maybe it goes to show you don't mix well now that she has gone all super God on you. Sounds like she is trying to almost change you but doing it in a very bad way there is a way to talk to people about God that are of a different sexual nature and that's not it.
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