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writes:How long should i wait to aplolise to him?Theres a guy i meet about 4 months ago and we spoke every night, i went to see him last weekend on the train. and stayed over (we did other stuff but didnt have sex) it was great though, we couldnt stop laughing.Buthe didnt make contact with me when i got home for like 8, i spoke to him once and he didnt talk much at all. So i kind of lost my cool today and confronted him on facebook chat about why hasnt he made contact, and that i can take a hint. And said if he aint interested anymore and hes too busy looking elsewhere for someone then id rather know instead of getting hurt.And he started saying he had like no credit and hes been busy with family And friends over christmas ...fair enough. but i went on his profile and hes been talking to everyone over the holidays and been flirting with this girl by the looks of it, and she mentioned something about a message he sent her. So credit? i think so. Can text her but not the girl you was in bed with last weekend.But we've been dead rocky today and it feels horrible not being ok with each other. I joined a group on facebook about boys hurting girls, and he confronted me saying am i making hints.And dont think he believes me to be honest. I just wanna apologize but when should i do it,and should i do it by text? or next time hes online.Il get all tounge-tied if i do it on the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks, i really liked him, hes not even speakin to me anymore :(
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (28 December 2009):
 What do you have to apologize to him for? You spent last weekend with him after which he didn't contact you for what, eight days was it? And the two of you had been talking every night before that.
As it was, you had to get in touch with him, by phone and then on facebook, and basically got the run-around with him talking about not having any credit, and being so busy..... not to mention flirting with another girl.......I understand you hate feeling on the outs with him but really, why don't you just leave it alone at this point? Let HIM chase you; let him wonder why he hasn't heard any more from you, and then you can see if he gets in touch, and if he does, decide if you want to continue with him.
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