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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiI'm in my early 30s and struggle to find the right type of partner. I have been dating women I'm not really attracted to as sometimes I feel in need of female company. I've decided to stop that as it's just wasting mine and their time.I don't particularly go out of my way to meet women and people say that it will just happen. The thing is I tend to go to work, meet some close male friends now and again for a drink etc. I am interested in sports such as golf, running and cycling but don't tend to really meet women this way. I wouldn't say I am desperate and I'm quite confident in myself when with a women but wonder whether sometime in the future I will regret not placing more emphasis on putting myself in situations where I am meeting women. In the back of my mind, I'm not getting any younger and am keen to have a family one day.Should I alter my lifestyle slightly to allow me to meet more women or should I do as most people tell me - be patient and it will happen when I least expect it?And if so, how would you suggest changing lifestyle.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 October 2008):
If you want a girlfriend then go looking for one. If you are happy being single then don't. There is no should or shouldn't. It all depends on what you actually want in life right now.
If you have decided you want to meet a girl for a serious relationship then figure out what kind of girl you want and go to a place where they hang out. Do you want a girl who can cycle across mountains with you? If so then start joining clubs or do one of these big charity bike rides. There will be lots of girls to meet there.
If you want a girl that's more girly and leaves you to do your sports on your own then head out in to town with your male friends and chat to pretty girls in bars. All the most intelligent girls will go for a drink after work so you just have to start going and talking to them.
Good Luck!! xx
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