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writes:I know this is going to sound stupid and childish but... there is a guy who I go to uni with and he has added everyone from our classes apart from me. should I just add him? do you think he didn't add me because he doesn't like me ? everyone always says he fancies me but if he did surely he would of added me on facebook?i really like him but now im not sure if he likes me or not
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (10 February 2015):
 Amen to what WiseOwlE said.
Adding (or not adding) has NO bearing on his feelings.
TALK to the guy (not about FB) but TALK to him in school, get to know him as a person instead of all this (YES childish) speculations. Next you will want your friend to give him a note that says do you like me X for yes O for no... Honey, you are OLD enough to decide IF you want to get to know his as a person or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): If anything he didn't add you because he probably knows everyone thinks he fancies you so didn't want to deal with all the drama
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): You need to grow-up a little. Adding people to Facebook is no indication of how you feel about a person. You can add total strangers just to look like you're popular.
If you think a guy likes you, you had better look for better signals and evidence than that. If he hasn't approached you to let you know himself, you can't go by what others tell you.
The only real evidence that a guy likes you; is when he comes up to you and finds a way to talk to you to get to know you. He can put any girl's mug on his Facebook wall.
If he hasn't approached you, it may be because he's not interested at all.
Have you even made any effort to talk to him, to determine if he even knows you exist? You want evidence he likes you, how about making yourself available?
You're not in high school anymore. Crushing from a distance is what you did when you were 14!
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