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*elplessgirl
writes:In your opinion, a good boyfriend that really loves you should accept you for the way you look? Even if you feel fat or ugly? Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (23 March 2009):
 If your boyfriend loves you then he loves you for the way that you are or else he wouldnt be your boyfriend.
If you feel you're fat or ugly, dont. Everyone is a different shape and size - this is what makes the world such a wonderful place to live! Dont worry over your looks, you're young and still growing, you have nothing to worry about :)
If your boyfroend says your fat or ugly, he isnt worth your time or effort - that is, as the previous poster said, emotional abuse.
xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (22 March 2009):
Well if he's your boyfriend, then surely this is already your answer....
He wouldn't be your boyfriend if he wasn't attracted to you.
If he's got with you and then is telling you that you are ugly then that's abuse and bullying and you should dump him so fast he's out the door before he's got his shoes on.
If he's telling you that you are a bit overweight because he's worried about your health, that's fine and he can go jogging / cycling with you.
If he's telling you that you are fat as an insult then dump him in the same way as above.
If YOU are the one thinking you are fat and ugly then you are just being a teenage girl, and unfortunately he'll have to either stop seeing you so he doesn't have to listen to your moaning, or just wait till you grow up and put up with you till then.
Good Luck!! xx
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