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writes:I've been living with my boyfriend for 6 months now, and at first everything was perfect but he got a short nasty temper. A minute he's fine the next thing you know when he can't fine something he's looking for or he's feeling hot he's starts punching the wall, throwing things around, cursing. I know he would never lay a hand on me and i never feel a threat. But it hurts watching him go tru that its like he's a complete different person. I don'y know what to do, i want to get him help but don't know how to or where. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): You need to have a long chat with him and explain that you would like to help him and if he doesnt take this on board, then i would seriously look at your relationship. Do you love him? Do you really want to be with him long term? You say he punches the wall and wouldnt hit you, how can you know? May be in the future he will take his frustration out on you, will you still be there? Be careful. If things dont improve and it is disturbing you then walk!
take care
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Some guys are like that and you have to get used to those behaviors.They may grow out of those mannerisms .Maybe , you could influence him some.
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