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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear...well anyone or everyone,I am writing with a problem. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 2 year and we have been deeply in love since we first met. When were flatmate due to uni and it all kicked off from there. I left uni after 6 month due to family reasons and found a place of my own. she then move in with me and we were both really happy. When we use to go out with her mates from uni and my mates she was fun to be around and the heart and soul of any night out. Recently she left uni and we moved closer to her home. where we moved to i know nobody and didnt know any of her friends. after a few nights out with her friends i saw that she was a completely different person. she will taunt me and pick on me all night calling me stupid, immature and all kinds of other things. I told her it yesterday and she just told me i was being " A tad senative." when were alone were great but around her friends she a complete bitch.help!JayP.s sorry for the length and the poor quality for writing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Your girlfriend seem very inmature for acting that way she has. Your deserve to be treated with love and respect...Not to be taunted and humiliated. If she is to inmature to grasp that concept, it may be time for you to find someone who will love and honnor you like you deserve. All my prayers Love.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 What is she trying to prove? I thought only guys did this? And usually when they do it, they are trying to act like they are still independent and tough. When you're not with her friends, you need to have a frank discussion with her about her behavior and the completely rude way she acts when she's in front of them. After that, if she does it again, I would suggest you let her go out with these friends, while you do something else with your time. Maybe she will eventually find new friends and start acting normal. Sounds like she's trying to live up to some kind of image these friends have of her. Maybe she was always the cool girl all the other girls looked up to. That's nice but it's time for her to grow up and stop acting like an ass. Good luck.
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