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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2006): Reading your question, four things spring to mind.
1) You could kill her boyfriend and tell the women of your dreams you did it to show her how much you love her.
2) You could become such an amazing friend and person around her that she realises how much better off she would be with you over her boyfriend.
3) You could stay friends with her, hoping that one day she breaks up with her boyfriend and you'll be in with a chance
4) You could distance yourself from this girl and fall in love with a girl who is available.
I would recommend option 4. I know a couple of guys who have chosen option 3 and who are utterly in love with a female friend who, in turn, is utterly in love with their boyfriend. It is sad state that they have spent YEARS hoping the love of their life has some kind of revelation and suddenly returns their love. It's not going to happen though. Most people who label someone "friend" rarely change their feelings.
There's a lot of people in the world, I suggest you move on and find someone who is single and in the same situation as you; wanting to find love. Good luck - it'll work out - I promise you!
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