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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys. Really need some good mature opinion here. I am completely crazy about this girl I have met several times now and we feel the strongest natural chemistry ever (I am not lying if I say I have never felt like this before). However she has a boyfriend and she is now all confused and I kinda feel bad for this situation but I am myself finding it hard. She says she has already tried to break up with him twice but it didn't go well and finds herself strongly connecting to me. That's when I told her she wouldn't be around me if she didn't feel a void. Now my take is that, since I really like her I should go for her. I can't let something this good get away without a fight. I am not the reason if she breaks up as I c it and I have said that to her as well. I have decided to give her her space and time to think things over.
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (15 September 2011):
 Strongly advise for your own sake that you do not get invved with this girl until she has walked away from the boyfriend.
Dating a married/coupled up person is the most horrible, hard and upsetting thing for the "third party" your always second best, they will tell you all sorts of things (usually driven by lust) but if there still with someone sadly they are not yours.
Please keep your distance until she confirms she is single
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