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She's popular, I'm shy, how do I approach her?

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Question - (6 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 February 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I met this girl six months ago and we became friends. As we got to know each other better, we realised that we had a lot in common. Anyway, I last saw her at a school disco, and I realised that I had feelings for her. I was worried when she started talking to another guy. Since then, I can't stop thinking about her. I am finding it hard to get to sleep at night and have losted by apetite. She has quite a high popularity ranking at school, and I can be shy sometimes when it comes to girls. I'm not sure she feels the same was about me though, and it gnaws away at my insides. I'm not sure how to approach her though- any help would be appreciated.

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A female reader, littlemisshelpful United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2011):

Hey dude :)!

Okay firstly, if shes not interested then screw her..Shes missing out!

If you really like this girl, then aproach her.. but remember its always better to have her as a friend than nothing at all, and if you where to get in a relationship, the odds of you staying together are low concidering your age. Id suggest finding out things about her.. what she likes, bla bla bla, girls like it when your interested in what they like. You may think this girl would profer to go for the more confidance bad boy. But the majority of girls arnt like that. They'd much profer someone who was kind, respectful, caring, etc. As much as funny! Just whatever you do, dont change yourself to fit her standards.

P,s- im 15, so i do get how ur feeling :)

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