A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: hello, my problem is I dont know what to do in my relationship next. I love my girlfriend much and we have been going out for about a month. She is older than me and is a bit more experienced,as i have never had a proper girlfriend before. we have kissed and french kissed but nothing else. i dont know whats next.please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, melschatbox +, writes (24 January 2007):
Nothing has to be next. Enjoy mastering kissing...you'll know when's the right time to move on to further things. Don't feel pressured b/c she's older, she obviously likes something in you ...a younger guy. Don't rush into sex..b/c you only have your first time once! It should be special...and not b/c you feel pressured. A month is not long enough to go any further than kissing, hand holding, and just being affectionate with each other. Believe me, she probably doesn't want anything more. Go slow...be safe...and best of luck.
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