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She's married and is a good friend of mine. But she leads me on-what should I do?

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Question - (10 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2008)
A male United Kingdom, *aughn writes:

Hi,

I want some advice on a Friend of Mine. We've been best of friends for 3 years in December, had a few ups and downs but have always reunited back with each other :) because we are very close. Anyway I'm 20 and she is 18, she recently got married and her husband is in the Army but he was AWOL for a bit and now he is in Army prison for another month and when he gets out they are moving away to Germany, but she has confessed to me that if they have bad arguments when they move away that she won't want to be around him and doesn't know where to come back to, and before I said she said I could come back to yours and see you, so I said yeah I would love that. Anyway a few months back she dressed up in in some really nice underwear and we just had a laugh and stuff so sometimes we text and she says I wanna be dirty so we text talk and say stuff like what we would do sexually together..then if like on my Bebo or facebook I speak to another girl before her she gets a bit annoyed about it because It's like I put another girl before her. We always say Love You or I Love You Loads or lots, stuff like that and I know she is married but sometimes the way she acts leads me to think different? I might just be seeing things that shouldn't or aren't there. Anyway any advice would be great.

Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008):

My opinion - she wants you. I've been that friend. She just doesn't know how to approach it because she is married. Talk to her and see where she stands. If your friendship is that close then you'll be able to get through this one way or the other.

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A female reader, josien Uganda +, writes (10 October 2008):

if u have ever had ups and downs ad reunited have hope that you will reunite again.

are u scared of loosing your friend orrrrrrrrrrrrrrr what ?

are you also married?

may be she is trying to make her marriage work out for her and looks at you as a block. that may be thats why your seeing thing as they are

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