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writes:I'm still deeply in love with my ex. Even though I never call, text, or look her up on social media anymore. In my heart I miss her terribly, which is irrational and stupid because she doesn't want to talk to me. Sometimes, when I'm at work I stare at my computer reminiscing about all the good times we shared. Then I remember the not so great times, but it doesn't matter because the good times were as blinding as the sun. My head tells me she was irrational and quick tempered.I never saw a future with any of my other gfs. I never even wanted a gf, but somehow she made me want a wife. I know time is supposed to make the pain go away, but it's been months and I still miss her. It's a quiet sadness in my heart. An aching in my soul that cannot be filled by casual dating or activities with friends because when I'm alone I know who I really want to talk to. I don't know why I'm even writing honestly. I'm up way too early and she's always first on my mind. I just needed to vent.
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reader, Rey +, writes (4 April 2015):
Rey is verified as being by the original poster of the question I did something stupid last night. I texted her for the first time in two weeks asking her if she wanted to go to a concert with me. She said "No Thanks. Have fun!" Honestly I'm surprised that she responded at all. I feel really dumb.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2015): Takes time... seems to be worse for guys too. I am with my boyfriend 2 and half years. But I think I think he only got over his ex (from 5 years ago) last year. So 4 years... now he was over her for the most part when we met bur there was still a little something he was holding on to. He never admitted it to me until the end last year even though I knew (I'm very sensitive to feeling other people's emotions and intuitive of them so I just knew) But hes an obsessive thinker and like you said: It's only been a few months. It's going to be OK.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2015): I had exactly the same thing with someone... its been four years and i still think about her but the hurt and ache does go away... it wasnt meant to be.... i know its bad but your family and friends still love you and you will laugh again soon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2015): Hi, I know how you feel, its been almost three years for me, I've been with many, but still think of her with my heart, the pain will stop aching, but the memories, will always be there, they just won't hurt, some times in life you meet that person, you think is the one you have been dreaming about your whole life, then for no reason, they are gone, nothing you did, they just don't feel the same, they say karmas , will get them, but you will never see it, that sucks, you know, I hope they look back, an realize how they screwed up a good thing, when that next person treats them like sh t, hope you feel better real soon.
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