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36-40,
*allyman
writes:Dear Readers,My Girlfriend has recently split up with me and now we got back together. Been together again about 3 weeks, after being split for two, prior to that we've been together 6 years.We only had sex once since getting back together.The reason for spliting was she hit a spell of feeling down and depressed, and now she has sorted it (she lost her long term job, now got new job etc...)She says she loves me, and i love her very very much, everything is fine except our sex life.She gets turned on when i touch her etc... but she just says she doesnt feel anything "mentally maybe ?"she says she doesnt get the "urge" to have sex etc...Whats wrong ?? Any suggestions or similar storys ? any suggested solutions ?
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reader, Rallyman +, writes (25 March 2008):
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We have spoken about it, loads. But all she can say is she "doesnt know" whats up, that i'm perfect, and she says she must be stupid.
Obviously i reassure her she isnt and that we will sort it.
I do cuddle and kiss her, tell her i fancy her, buy her perfume (only last week) and grab her ass (gently) etc... and kiss her neck, but she still seems to "feel nothing" i'm confused what she means by feels nothing. Maybe time will sort it, and we will get back to normal.
Is it worth asking her to go to see her doctor ? (together)
I'm trying not to pressure her and be there for her, but it does get frustrating. She says i'm being very patient.
Maybe it's just her age at the moment, as i'm 24 and shes 34, we've always had a good sex life before, the age gap isnt a problem.
But i thought she'd of been in her peak now ? or is it 40 women peak at ?
Help !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Ask her why she doesn't want to go further . Ask her if there is anything thats she wants that you can give her . don't pressure her tho . that never works. You'll just make her unhappy and you may possibly end up sleeping alone on the couch .
I hope I helped a little
I hope everyhting works out for you
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