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*isa73
writes:i am a girl and i told my friend that i had a boyfriend..but like four months ago i told her i was lesbian..i just want to be concidered normal..but i am lesbian ..i just want her and others to accept me(i havnt told her) but now she is avoiding me after i told her i had a boyfriend...i really dnt know why?she wont talk to me
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (1 August 2009):
Have you ever thought she was being your friend so she can get close to you and then see if you guy's could be in a relationship. The bottom line is you are lying and playing games if you are a lesbian then why say you have a man. Now if you are Bi then say that you can't keep changing the game. Why don't you call her and say Hey What'sup I haven't heard from you in awhile. I think you find that she liked you more than she let on because just because you have a bf isn't a reason to cut you off completely with no explanation. You sound confused I think you should stick with being single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): Prehaps she is disappointed in your faliure to stay true to who you are. Or she feels like you are telling her things just to get attention, and she feels insulted by it. i think you should tell her what you've said here. That you just want to seem normal and be accepted. Maybe she can help you through your fear of remaining the sexual orientation that you are at heart. She needs to hear the truth instead of being tossed in two directions. It's hard for her to support you if you're not clear on what you need support in. If she won't talk to you, maybe send her a note on facebook or write her a letter telling her who you really feel.
~Sy.
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