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*hernandez1991
writes:I had a friend she was a lesbian. We spent lots of time together and i started to get feelings for her. And i presumed she had feelings for me because she'd hold my hand, snuggle up to me... all that kind of stuff. She even went to prom with with me. I told her i loved her and she said she didnt even though she was having troubles with her partner. Now shes a few hundred miles away in Washington in the navy or some crap like that. My point is that i cant get her out of my mind. she was like the first girl i loved. what should i do to get over her and move on??
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Hi
Oh that fantastic, im so happy for you :) Have a wonderful new year. I hope your christmas was good too. x
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reader, Jhernandez1991 +, writes (26 December 2011):
Jhernandez1991 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank u mandy. U were the most helpful.,i got her out,of my head and now have a boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2011): how about reminding yourself that she's gay and doesn't like men?? that could be for starters.
you say you presumed she liked you back. well ya know, believe it or not, lesbians aren't just lesbians while they're secretly waiting around for the right guy to waltz into their life. they're happy without men. they DON'T LIKE MEN like that. your assumption she liked you back is pretty arrogant, if you ask me. she's made it clear to you she's gay. not just gay until she meats the right guy.
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (10 May 2011):
Hi
It may be because she really knows YOU!! thats why you felt the need to be with her? Sometimes if we are feeling low, or misunderstood, we can take kindness as strong feelings, because were missing it in our life. I f she told you she dont feel the same, you have to move on. maybe its just curiousity that has got to you? its new, and your struggling with how your meant to be feeling? Either way you need to take time out to understand if what your feeling is real, or just infactuation towards someone who has shown you a different side.
I hope this has helped
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