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writes:Six months ago, I dated this girl for a month. She broke up because she said she still had feelings for previous ex whom she dated off and on for over a year. She said she doesn't think she will ever go back to him because he's a jerk. Now six months later, she says she regrets breaking up with me and sees what she had with me. And says they were never "with" each other. We've tried to talk but she can't say these things to my face, only through friends. I'm confused and can't trust her 100%..what to do??
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (19 June 2012):
 If you're still interested, ask her out. Take your time, get to know her again. You may find that you can trust. It is probably just a case of her not being very mature as yet. Give her a chance, if you really like her.
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reader, darkwind94 +, writes (19 June 2012):
 She's probably upset that she left you and feels like she could never make it up to you. Try to be supportive. Don't push her to admit what she did, at least not until you guys are in better speaking terms. If you want to be with her, just let her know that it's okay that she left you. I know you are probably hurt, but if you want to be with her, your best bet is swallowing your pride and taking her back.If you don't want to be with her again, just kindly tell her that you aren't interested. You'll know for sure once you talk to her more and more. It's not a good idea to just jump into being in a relationship again because then she's going to be on the rebound. Start as friends again, if possible, and as you guys build trust and understand each other more, you'll probably be together again. Don't jump into sex or anything like that, because then you might feel worse than when you started. Take it nice and slow. And make sure you take the initiative.. since she might feel a bit down still. Good luck!
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