A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok i am with the most wonderful girl ever and I love her and she loves me. Here lately she been living eith her grandma due to some issues with her dad, and she has been totally different and she blames it on being home sick. Well at christmas she didn't get me anything nor at valentines did she, but on her b-day i got her a 85$ necklace that she lost and on v-tines day i got her a 70 dollar ring that she wont wear and i dont know why. she says she forgets it but the problem is how she has been acting. I told her the day befor my birthday i wanted to see her. she never came by and her excuses are phony ones. she really hurt my feelings and when i told her she did she chewed me out. Another thing is that she expects me to text her first off in the mornings, if i dont she dont talk to me til late and its another chewing out for me. i love her but she is getting out of hand. she was going to leave me for not opening up to her and when i fo open up to her she gets mad. she wont open up and tell me whats going on in her life but expects me to tell her whats going on in mine. we have been together 9 months now and she is being so different, could anyone help me! Pretty Please!?!
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (12 March 2009):
I'll tell you honestly that I think she only enjoys you for the control she has over you. It doesn't sound as if she is giving you much in terms of companionship and love. I think you need to at least be honest with her and tell her that you need more in a relationship than what she's offering right now. But really, I think it's time for you to move on.
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