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writes:My girlfriend was more sexually active with her exes than with me. I don't mind her past, but I wish she would just do some of these things with me. Does she just not find me as attractive?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, these help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): Women always talk about being respected in these situations. I think that is mostly a load of crap to justify their unfair actions. There is nothing respectful about making someone work harder for something and giving them less of it.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (18 December 2010):
 You really should talk to your girlfriend about this one. It could be that with her exes she was experimenting to find out what she liked and now she knows and so feels comfortable enough doing just the things she enjoys with you instead of feeling pressured into doing different things?
Or it could just be that she is nervous and doesn't know if you will like them?
It doesn't necessarily mean something negative is my point.
But to know for sure just talk to her, tell her what you want, ask her what she wants, ask why she isn't (if she isn't) interested in being as experimental with u.
You won't get anywhere unless you discuss this with her and hopefully it will be fine, it mite open up your communication a bit and make everything even better :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): if she's with you she finds you attractive trust me... she might just respect you to much to do things she did with her exes then with you or she might have just been more experimental take it slow don't push
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