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She was "in the closet" when she left. Now she's Out but leaves me confused!

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Question - (18 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I am a 21 year old gay girl. 10 months ago, my girlfriend of nine months ended our relationship, not giving me any reason. She was still'in the closet' throughout our relationship, and I knew she was confused about who she really was.

We remained friends, as I hoped we'd get back together in time. We regularly meet up on Saturdays, and spend most of our free-time together; though, just as friends.

Problem is, I still love her, and want us to get back. she doesn't!We're great together, and it doesnt make sense. She's since come out the closet, and is comfortable with who she is; so, it cant be that!

She says she doesnt 'feel that way' about me anymore, but every few months we end up back in bed together!She spends most of her time with me, and neither of us wants to lose each other!...I cant help thinking that she does have feelings for me! Am I wasting my time hoping?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2005):

From what it sounds...this girl is just stringing you along. She doesn't want an intimate relationship with you but when she fancies some your there at her service! Remain friends and be there for her, but stop wasting your time hoping! I know it'll be hard to stop thinking about her in that way, but move on. Just be there for her as a friend, and nothing else.

Good luck.

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