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writes: I have been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now, im 22, shes nearly 19 and gorgeous. She has just told me that she has been txting another lad from college more often than she should be. She told me that she likes him because he makes her feel special. She says that she doesnt want to be with him and she loves me but doesnt know if she wants us to carry on in our relationship. she says that because she got with me straight after leaving school she hasnt had any time to let her hair down and enjoy a single life. Im absolutely devestated and feel sick from the thought of her not being with me. She says that she doesnt know what to do, be with me or go do her own thing. how can i help her make the correct decision?. What am i supposed to do sit and wait and hope for the best? please helpthankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (19 December 2006):
 I'm afraid so. Sit and wait and hope for the best. She needs to make her decision and only she can make it. Don't push her away right now but at the same time give her some space to think. Give her time to make up her mind. Talk about it together once and then give her some space to make up her mind. I know it hurts but these things happen sometimes. I hope it all works out for you. Hang in there.
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