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writes: basicly i have had a crush on this girl for a while now, im sure she fancied me at one point, we were talking on facebook and texting at every opportunity, we both live in the same area and met up on a few occasions, then our 'relationship' disintegrated, asin we spoke less and less to the point of never speaking at all, i still got the occasional wall post on facebook with the like for a rate and like for a 'your the one' and they were very suggestive... i:e yto whos fit, hot and who i should meet again ectera...my friends know about her and one of them, while at my house said he will message her on his account to wind me up to see if she replyed to him, wich she did and he asked her (either trying to do me a favour or just been a complete pillock) if she would f**k me... wich she replyed he hasent asked me yet, so being encouraged by my mates i messaged her confronting what she told my mate and she said yes we should f**k and after a lot of flirting and planning we have a date when she has a free house, and i asked her to message me a day or so before just to confirm every thing , yano like if were still on for it and that...now my problem is, ofcourse i want to sleep with her, possibly with a view for a relationship, but how do i know she realy wants to sleep with me? and that she wasent just saying it? she did say aswell she was sending hints she would sleep with me when we first started chatting wich i knew about but just ignored them... how can i be 100% sure she will sleep with me , or even send me the message giving me the all clear to go round to her house???? should i message her first? reminding her? obviously i can just wait until the next weekend to see if she was just leading me along, but ther must be a way of telling if shes being truthfull??? also should i invite her out before hand, to the pub or to go out some where? and should i message her at all just to chat? the last topic we spoke about was if either you or me have a free house get incontact and arrange somthing..... thank you if you answer :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2012): No! she only wants to be your friend.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 I think this girl likes you so she said she would sleep with you to get closer to you. I think what you should do, if you are serious about this girl is to ask her out on a date, it will show you are a proper gentleman and not just looking for a one night stand, so ask her for a meal or to go to the cinema with you and see what she says. If you really like her then it should not all be about having sex with her and more about getting to know her she will appreciate that more. So text her and ask her on a date.
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