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*lliiott
writes:Before anyone says I should speak to her about this, I have, I've told her times and times again.Me and my girlfriend have been together for roughly nine months now, And she keeps going on how I don't trust her..Well, I don't. She is always out partying with her mates with guys and girls, Which I see in the photos, I know there is alcohol involved, So that's why I'am worry. And out here in France, Everyone is like, "I love you loads, I adore you, Kissy Kiss, Kiss, Goodbye. "Problem is, She says and does that to other guys ...Another reason why I don't trust her, Is because of what has happened to me in the past (Not Involving her.)I guess I'm afraid to trust her in case I get hurt again.So, How can she prove to me that I can trust her, And Vice versa .Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, Elliiott +, writes (3 August 2009):
Elliiott is verified as being by the original poster of the question The relationship isn't long distance ..
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 August 2009):
She can't and she shouldn't have to.
If you can't handle a long distance relationship with a flirty girl then end it and don't drag her down.
This problem is yours and she shouldn't have to change and stop having fun just to make you feel better.
I don't think this relationship is going to work because there is no way she can prove she's not cheated without locking herself in the nearest prison and sitting alone under CCTV all day.
Find a girl closer to you and work on your insecurities so you don't mess up any more relationships with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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