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writes:I met this girl back in August 2008, we were flirting for a little while until January, when I finally got her to go out with me, (I never really asked her before then). She said she wanted a relationship and I did too, for the past couple of years she was messing with this guy and I was with another girl. Nothing serious. So we agreed we were gonna try to do the serious thing. As the days went by, I thought I was falling for her. Then a couple of weeks ago she tells me she doesnt wanna hurt me and says we should stop. I asked her why and she wont tell me. I left her alone, but for the past two weeks I just can't stop thinking about this girl it's driving me nuts!!! She lives so close to me, yet, I can't see her or talk to her. I never did anything!!! I'm 28 years old I have been with plenty of girls yet this girl has me like a puppy. I thought our relationship was on cruise control then all of the sudden she walks out on us. What should I do to forget her! should I wait and see?
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reader, Who  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Well, in the old days men like you trying to forget a girl would join the French Foreign Legion. I think this worked, the men DID forget, at least the ones killed in battle.
If you are not dying to forget (no pun intended) you can try Plan B: Sports. It can be a team sport or not, in an organized league or just a bunch of guys playing a game. It can be something solo, like running or weight lifting. You can train for a competition (are there any running races in your town?) or just train to improve yourself physically (increase the weight you can lift, and how many times.) The point is to work yourself to exhaustion 3 or 4 times a week. This will have two benefits to you: let you forget about the old girl, and make you more interesting to the next girl that comes by.
Good luck and hope this helps.
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