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writes:ok so i know you all have prob about had enough of my questions, but i have one last one.my wife and i got together for about 5 days, it was all great and infact the last day she went and got us wedding rings. i was soo happy i figured we were getting back together. we talked the next day for about 2 hrs about how she was going to move up here in a couple months, and things were going to get better.she was going to cancel the divorce and everything.. well then i get a message on my phone says call me asap. well she ended up callin me said she talked to her family AGAIN and now shes back to 'she doesnt know what she wants'. my friend's wife talked to her and she told me she went on 2 dates a couple days before we got together and that she didnt like them nor the guys.we have had so many good times in the past month she had told me she loved me 3 times. now shes not returning my phone calls, emails, or texts. i've written her poems and expressed every emotion to her in emails trying to at least get an answer as to if we are ever going to hang out again, or even considered starting over in the future. but i get nothing. i want to leave her alone but i keep thinkn shes going to forget about me and that will be that, and then once the divorce comes up and is final, she will have a guy waitin in line. i just want to be givin that one last chance. anybody know how i can stop thinkin about her, or see subtle hints if she wants to continue to be friends, and even divorce this marriage to start a new relationship with me in the future? i just love her too darn much to let go, its killin me inside to not hear her voice, to not talk to her considering all that happened last week. she told my friends wife that she did it to make me happy. if she did that to make me happy y didnt she continue? i'm just really hurt and want some answers.. help please!
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reader, reluctant +, writes (4 October 2008):
to venture a guess, she gets more support from her family than u? she lets her family tell her what makes her happy. this is a good time to practice self love. not sole search, but masterbate likd mad. no joke. i still cant get enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): No offince Dear Love, but your wife seems extreamly inmature, and that she is trying to keep you stringging along. Love is a strange thing, either you love the person, or you don't, You want to be with them and none other, or be a skeeze and be with lots of others. Do her a favor, and show her that you can survive on your own. Don't let her manipulate her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): You have and need to let her go.She doesn't know what shewants and is not communicating.She's not letting out any more of her feelings or talking to you about her problems and why things are like they are.She's not trying to work it out and make it work.I'm sorry cause this is not what you wanted to hear,but it's the best to do.You'll find that special lady who will tell you anything and make you happy with just her love and will do things for you because she loves you,and she will be everything you're looking for.So,just let her go.There are other fishes in the sea.I hope I helped and I wish you the best.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Wow, awwww don't feel bad sweety. The best advice I can give you is to confront her and talk to her about how you feel about what you heard, maybe that's what your marriage lacked, pure communication. And sometimes people say things that's they don't mean, I'm sure your wife loves you maybe what she was trying to really say is that she's not sure she's ready to be in a marriage again because she's going through some phase, but by saying she's doing it to make you happy says a lot, because lets just say hypothetically speaking she really is unhappy but she knows you love her a lot and she doesn't want to see you unhappy, her sacrificing her "happiness" to make you happy is a sign that she really does love and care about you. She's putting you first. Just give her time, I'm sure things will be fine.Best of luck!!!!! Mrs.C2b ; )
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