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writes:So me and this girl have huge attractions toward each other and I am thinking more of sex and **** buddy and friends benefits...and whatever happens down the road, ie: a relationship or more I would be open to it. She seems down at first, but then she backed down. I told her that she is being a tease to me, but she told me that she doesn't want to hurt me.What does it mean, I need help people. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): Maybe she's under the impression that you want an exclusive relationship, she just wants fun though until she finds someone more suitable for a relationship.
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reader, mrg123  +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Its all a bit vauge this one and a number of possibilities suggest themselves. However, one of them is that possibility is that she thinks you want a relationship and she doesnt. Maybe shes thinking the same as you, FWB and because she thinks you have deeper feelings for her doesnt want to put you through that. Maybe your too attached in her eyes and shes being cruel now to be kind in the long run.
Maybe she feels more and shes not trying to protect you at all but really is trying to protect herself from getting hurt because she knows you only want FWB for now. Maybe she is confused about what she is feeling. There are about a million different maybes and the point is that on the information I have here I wouldnt be happy conclusively favouring any. What you really need to do is talk to her and lay your cards on the table, tell her exactly how your feeling and what you want and go for it. This is the only way you will find out what is going on here; or else your just going to end up going round in endless circles trying to second-guess her. Good luck :).
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