A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I need some help. I've recently started seeing a girl who I really like. Things are going insanely well, to the point we are starting to consider an official relationship. Tonight she spoke to me and said she had to tell me something because she didnt believe in dishonesty. She told me that before her and I started seeing eachother she was having a casual sexual thing with another guy. It was never anything more than just sex and she admitted that today she told him it couldnt happen anymore because there was someone else (enter me) who she couldnt stop thinking about and was starting to get serious about. On one hand I'm glad she's been honest with me about whats going happened. I feel chuffed to bits she told this other guy it was over because she's in to me. Because I'm really in to her. But what does everyone else think of it? I mean we're not in a relationship yet but have been seeing eachother for a few weeks. She's done the right thing hasn't she and I shouldn't be worried? Just looking for some general opinions. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Manya  +, writes (30 June 2010):
I think her honesty is something to prize! She seems like she doesn't want to go into a deeper relationship with you without acknowledging that she recently had a guy friend for a sexual fling. But whom she's told she can't shack up with any more because she wants to be with YOU. I think she seems very nice, and so do you!
Best of luck with this relationship, and I hope things work out for you.
Love,
Manya
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): I think that's a very honest, sincere gesture for her to do that. But I would honestly keep a bit of a cautious eye open. Most guys do not take kindly to losing a fuck buddy. He may pursue, or she may give in and go back for Mr. ol' reliable. Women seem to love that reliable fuck they can go back to when the mood strikes. I'm sure she won't, but you never know. Depends a lot on teh woman she is. She sounds like a keeper tho. Enjoy what you get while you get it...especially at your age.
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