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writes:Am in love with a friend of mine, we grew up together and have known each other from childhood. I told he how i feel abaut her and dat am in love with her,but she said to me that am like a brother to her and she dont know how she will date or go into a relationship with me, that she will feel like dating her brother. Pls i need help, i do nt want to lose her cause she has every qaulities i need in a lady, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dlawube +, writes (16 June 2011):
Dlawube is verified as being by the original poster of the question We are just best of friends for now, she said i should give her time to get her self back, she is shocked! I want to say thanks to all of you,please keep up the good work.
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (14 June 2011):
 Hi,
Sorry that you'll feel sad, but I have to agree with your friend.
You said you've know each other since little kids and grow up together? No wonder she's confused. Through out her whole life, she saw you as a close brother, not a man. You have to understand her feelings and respect that.
Like I said, sorry you feel sad and maybe rejected, but its not her fault. She's not hurting you and its not about you personally as a person that she's kind of taking a step back. I am sure the news took her by surprise and caught her unexpectedly.
Don't be sad anymore, go back to the times when you guys enjoy spending time together. Who knows, maybe some feelings will develop in her side. I am sure she's thinking about it. But, the last thing you want to do right now is to pressure her or make her feel uncomfortable around you.
Don't be sad or think too much. Just give both of you sometime to let things go back to where it was and you'll know...
Good luck!
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