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writes: I have been in a relationship for about 18 months. Two weeks ago we broke up. I truely love this girl. She says its over, yet calls me every day or so. Should I answer the phone and talk or should I ignore her calls? I think if she was truely done with me she would not contact me. What should I do? Everyone keeps telling me to play hard to get. How long do I do that for?
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reader, kitty83 +, writes (10 April 2006):
Your Girlfried does not know what it feels like to miss you yet or is giving herself time to think what she really wants. I would stop answering your calls, i would give it 5 - 7 days. I know this will be tuff, but just know she knows she can talk to you whenever she feels like it. I think not hearing from you will make her realise its not so greener on the other side, if she doesnt call, her loss, she never knew how lucky she was to have you!!
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reader, Beachblonde11 +, writes (10 April 2006):
 i wouldnt play hard to get i would talk to her to let her know your not mad or dont care about her i would talk to her as if you two were friends and see where that goes she may just made a mistake and needs to take some time to realize whats shes doing
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reader, Lynnsie +, writes (9 April 2006):
If you still want to have a relationship with her, answer her phone or play a little bit mind game, but not that much, you will drive her away again.
If she keeps calling u, that is a sign she is still thinking of you, it happens a lot for a new break-up. She can not cut off your part from her life, so if you still want to be with her, why not answer the phone but play the game? True love does not need any game and can break all game rules, if you love her, this is ur chance, do not listen to your friend's rules.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2006): i'm in a seemly situation, i just broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago and he wanted talk about why i broke up with him so we did but then we've kept talking. i enjoy talking to him and still miss him when his not there. but i think the fact that our relationship hasn't change as confesed him into believe that were togeter which am not sure if we are or if not its very confusing.
i think you should speak to her and ask her what expectly what she wants from you, does she want to be in a relationship or not.
playing hard to get is just playing games you need to know whats going on
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