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She started hanging out with her ex and a bunch of other male friends! Should I believe her when she claims they are just friends.

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Question - (15 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, *RUSTRATED07 writes:

what's going on? we have been together for almost 3 years off and on and between that time i have moved in with her. the last fight we had she kicked me out. then she started hanging out with her ex and a bunch of other male friends but she claims they are just friends. am i stupid or what?

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (16 May 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntWell, you aren't being smart if you are accepting this. Firstly, the on-and-off part of your relationship over 3 years, should have tipped you off that it is best that you move on and find someone else.

I do not beleive for one second that they are all "just good friends". Whenever I have hung out with one of my ex's as just a good friend, I am sure the women reassured their boyfriends that I was just a friend, before they came over to get naked with me.

Sorry dude, but you are being played. Move out, and find someone else once and for all.

-FBK

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2007):

kenny agony auntIf i was in a relationship with someone for almost three years, then they said that they are hanging with their ex and his mates i would be somewhat suspicious to say the least. After all an ex is someone she has been close too, shared intimate moments with. I can't really say many, if any guys would be happy about their partners sharing time with an ex. I would talk to her and say to her how you feel and that you not happy about it.

Good luck

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