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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm not 100% sure if my best friend cares, loves me etc... I asked her if she did, and she always says "yes, why do you always doubt me?". When I text/IM/call or whatever she sometimes doesn't answer or replies back to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): Why is she your best friend? Is it because you were best friends growing up? Sometimes relationships change over time. if you don't feel your getting the support you need from her, maybe you could begin to confide in another friend?
On the other hand ... You say that you are both busy people, she may just actually be busy when you are free. Why don't you ask her when she is free first and then try to make plans together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh, and we don't see often because we are really busy. And when I decide to meet up with her she cannot go. I feel like she's trying to avoid me. I always tell her how I feel, but she never tells me how she feels about things. Shouldn't best friends tell each other almost everything? Especially about your feelings about each other. Sometimes I feel like we're not best friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): Please do not be offended, but it sounds as if that the problem is stemming from your own insecurities. I'm curious... have you have many relationships that mean as much to you as this friend does and if so have you doubted them too? Try to learn to trust, or this could continue to cause problems in this and future relationships.
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