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writes: Our Story is:I have a girlfriend I love her so much and I know she loves me too,but it seems that we're not meant to be with each other because we're on the same sex relationship.that's our biggest problem we face. Now we have planned to go to other country so we can be married because we don't have same sex wedding here in our country but we need more money to go there.So what she do today is she live with someone that will give her money and it really hurts me to see her with someone else,I can't even sleep well at night but she promise to me that she will really marry me,that I am the only one she loves,she will really be mine after this,so many promises and she said that she did this because she wants to earn money for us,for our plan.She texts me everyday but text is not enough for me.I really miss her a lot and I don't know what will I do,I feel so much pain.I'm afraid that she might fall in love with that person because that person do care her a lot.I'm pleasing her not to do this because it hurts me so much and I will just work so that we can earn money but still she continue doing this.My Questions are:1.For you does she really loves me or not even if she hurts me?2.Would i wait for her promises?I'm afraid that i am just hoping for nothing3.Will i stay in our relationship or not?4.If i stay,how can i overcome the pain i feel?5.What can you advice to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): I hope it all works out for you !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for replying me.,i don't know why she really want to get married with me.,the most important for me is that we know we love each other.what she did to me is so unfair.I'm still still aking her to leave that guy.,she said next week she will leave him
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): I think she will still love you even though she is hurting you but probably as you only really text each other she doesn't understand how much you hurt.
It doesn't really seem fair on whoever she is getting money from!! They will have feelings.
Why do you need to get married? Can't you be content just being together then she can leave whoever she is using and you won't hurt anymore
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