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writes:I've been in a relationship with another woman for nearly 2 years. She is married but her husband knows about me. She told him she was leaving him for me but when she sorted a place for us to live etc.. she changed her mind and ended our relationship. She says she is still very much in love with me and misses me but can't continue our relationship. I love her to bits and knowing she feels the same way is making it impossible for me to walk away. Does anyone have any advice?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): she told you she misses you and still is very in love with you? i believe she is.. but i don't believe anyone can have 2 true loves at one time. so she can't have two person in her heart at the same time! maybe she can't leave her husband because there are things she still loves about him, but if she is willing to face what she feels right now, she might not even love her husband anymore.
im impressed how she had told her husband she'd leave him for you. if i were you, i'd be cruel and force her to make a decision (yes, one more time). tell her what she's given you had make you realised all you ever wanted was her, and it's too late to go back now.. tell her, if she still choose not to go back to you, you will walk away from her life and she'll never get to see you again.
it might work for you. works for me with my my partner of 12 years:) good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2009): I'm afraid she made her decision and you have to respect that and try to move on. I know that's not what you want to hear, but no matter what you think her feelings for you are, she ended your relationship.
You won't like this but if you love her you'll let her go and let her try and be happy, because whatever her reasons were, she felt they were more important than her love for you.
I don't envy your situation and I hope things work out for you but as I've said the right thing to do, both for you and for her, is to walk away.
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