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She says she fancies me but wont go out with me...what should I do??

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Question - (11 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *antgetthatgirl writes:

There is this girl who has told me she fancy me, i and i really fancy her but she wont go out with me.

I have asked her out and she said no. What should i do??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008):

Hey, i had the exact same problem as you. I spent lots oftime with her, made sure i was always sitting next to her in free time ect. Let it grow on you, dont just walk up to her and ask "Do ya wanna go out with me?". Go out with other freinds aswell, talk to her 1 on 1 as often as possible and slip into a relationship. now u should ask her, dont get any1 else to do it, talk to her alone, and come str8 out.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2008):

She said no. Listen she likes you but not for a boyfriend.

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A female reader, Kathleeenie United Kingdom +, writes (12 March 2008):

Kathleeenie agony auntAsking her why would be a good start. Maybe shes not long got out of a relationship, maybe she wants to get to know you better first. Theres a whole number of reasons. Theres not alot else i can say from the limited information.

so try talking to her, good luck =]

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (12 March 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntAsk her why she won't go out with you. If she fails to give you a definite reason than she is probably lying about fancying you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008):

Just date someone else and leave her on the heap.

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A male reader, younghelper United States +, writes (12 March 2008):

younghelper agony auntWell, I understand why you are confused, but don't worry, she's probably playing hard-to-get. Don't beat yourself up over it, and don't obsess over it either. Just wait a little bit and she'll open up to you.

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